To maintain is the
price of fame, be prepared for anything to survive the times. Living is an art, and art is a way of life.
It is important you hit the ground running and stay relevant in your sphere and
the Selasi of the situation in whatever you do. Winning is a state of mind, a
way of life. The good news is you
somehow staggered or weaseled your way through 31st December 2014,
into 2015. That you said still have another 364 or so to go… la vie en 2015,
the Life and Times.
Networking
Networking with people
of like mind enhances and refines and improves individuals and their
craft. There is nothing wrong with
socializing and hanging out with friends, but often this is mistaken as
networking. A networking event is not an office call either or a speed dating
platform. Keep the conversation light and pleasantries to a minimum. Snacks and
drinks are often served at these events avoid stuffing your face or worse
getting drunk. Once you are known as the loud networker, you’re an event away
from getting uninvited. You exchanges
business cards for a reason, the onus is on you to follow up. It is not a
Friday night hangout with your clique, but an opportunity to multiply
opportunities. Listen for hints and clues, the nuggets are in listening. I have
learnt that when you listen, you always learn something you don’t know. It is
not an opportunity to give your resume or opinion, listeners switch off fast to
life story tales. Smile, show some culture and act civilized to meet movers and
shakers who will help you win.
Owning Style
Originality always
outlives trends and fads. If you are not a leader now, how will you be a leader
in the future? The future is already here, do or die. The fallacy of escaping
the sheered one day will never materialize until you reach in instead of
fitting in. Bullshit excuses like what will people think will leave you broke,
miserable and uninspired. Believe when I say, there is no greater compliment to
self than being unique. Shout out of to all the soul sisters rocking that all
natural look, it is very refreshing in scene blemished with skin bleaching and
weaves. Don’t get it misconstrued that weaves don’t look flyy, it’s all about
perspective. For a long time, the
Zambian fashion scene feels and looks like a ladies closet with very little
innovation or character. Nothing beautiful asks for attention, style is a
reflection of your character. You are a brand, noting says winning brand like
original finesse.
Own Your Stage
Your life is a stage,
stand on it and direct the script and be the lead. Don’t depend on an
understudy or trust another person with your destiny. Help is okay, but do not
compromise control of your idea. Every night is opening night, look the part
not lost. Rehearse with the best and never stop perfecting your performance.
Make life your dojo, everyday refining you r standards. Longevity over
popularity is key make your production a classic. You are future leader now
because the future is upon us. Technological advances have enhanced avenues of
reaching the global masses. Social networks started revolutions, hobbies have
made millions.
The selfie is a modern
day autograph. It tells the world who you associate with, and what consists
your circle. Give movement verve and meaning with selfspoken selfies that speak
for themselves. Being real and living your dream is the ultimate selfie. Trying
to fit in is for the faint hearted, 2015 still needs your undivided attention.
Remember that when you pray for rain you must also be prepared for mud. Take a
deep breath of inspiration, be an inspiration and energy as you stay winning.
Happy
New Year
The Renaissance Man
@ZambianHarshTag
